Wednesday, December 16, 2009

St. Nicks Day

A little over a week ago was St. Nicks Day. It's a special holiday that my family has always celebrated where children put their shoes outside of their door with a letter in it to Santa and then Santa comes along, takes the letter, and leaves candy in the children's shoes. I always had a ton of fun when I was little celebrating St. Nicks Day and I wanted to share that fun with my children.

So the first thing that we had to do was write a letter to Santa.





And then we went downstairs to put the letter in Gabriel's shoe we found out that Santa Claus had already come! He even left candy in Mommy, Daddy and Uncle Christopher's shoes! Though, some how Oma and Opa never get candy in there shoes from Santa... I wonder why?!?!


Gabriel was kinda too cold to be too excited about the candy in his shoe.


He just grabbed his Santa tube of Reeses Pieces and wanted back inside.


Because I never got to put Gabriel's 'other Santa stuff' in his shoe that I had secretly worked out with Santa (wink), we came back inside and I gave him his Christmas ornament.


He was pretty excited about his Winnie the Pooh bulb!






Then we gave him a taste of his yummy Christmas candy!




And that was our St. Nick's evening! Gabriel has played with Santa Claus tube of yummys ever since!

hair cut

Gabriel got a hair cut! If you look very closely in these two pictures you can see that Gabriel has a little bit of a mullet thing going on. His hair was actually over 3 inches in some parts!





Now it's like we have a whole new boy! I think he looks so different. His hair is only about an inch now.




How handsome is he? I just love my chubby cheek little boy!

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

At long last... again!

At long last I have come back to blog again. I really have no excuse for not blogging, it's not like I didn't have things to blog about. Really it just came down to dreading getting pictures off of my mom's camera so I had pictures to show you (my camera died so I was using hers)... so really, I was kinda lazy. But I really have to try to justify not wanting to get the pictures off of my mom's camera.

See, my mom never ever downloads her pictures from her camera to her computer. I really do mean never! I think every time it has been done it has been one of her children doing it. Well when I went to check on how many pictures she had on her camera it was 915, apparently nobody had taken the pictures off since June. So, one, my computer won't even register a camera that has that many pictures on it because it's a rather old computer. Two, because my computer won't take that many pictures from a camera at one time (and I didn't really want all of them) I needed to first download them all to her computer. Three, then I needed to go through all 915 pictures to decide which ones I wanted and then burn a disk to get them to my computer so I could blog. So maybe you can understand why I was dreading getting the pictures off of my mothers camera, even if in the end it still came down to laziness.

Anyway. Things have been going pretty well for Josh and I. We are still living at my parents home. The job that we kind of moved back for (not the only reason we moved but a big one) ended up falling through, so we are still jobless. Josh did have an interview with another company and we are still waiting to hear back from them. Hopefully we will have something soon.

Gabriel is doing amazing! He is talking more and more everyday. It's so cute. It's not like he couldn't talk before, he really just never had interest in talking. We used to be able to get him to say words, even big words but he would just say them a few times and loose interest. We figured we wouldn't really push it on him and just let him go at his own pace. Now it seems that he things words are fun and useful now! He still doesn't say a lot, he's figured out pretty well how to get the things he needs and wants without words. Some of his words are:
Mama and Dada (of course!)
Moe moe - more
Ah Da - All done
Ba ba bum - bump (you know? when you make a fist and bump someone else's?)
No no no noooo - No
Na tach - No touch
Hop - Hot
Ni Ni - Nighty night (he doesn't say that one too often, he's usually to upset over the fact that he is going to bed)
Oma - his Oma of course!
and a few more I can't think of right now!

My pregnancy is going pretty well too. I am getting a little more sicker then I used to. It's still not bad though, I just really need to make sure to eat every few hours. The problem is nothing really sounds good and if it doesn't sound good I have a heck of a time getting it down. The foods I really do crave aren't in season, like strawberries, raspberries, cantaloupe, peaches, and plums and those are the only things that sound good half the time so sometimes I really feel like I'm at a loss when it comes to eating. I do have a picture of my belly at 12 weeks though!



I'm 14 weeks now and my belly has 'popped' a little bit since that picture. I think I plan on taking pictures soon, maybe around 16 weeks... we'll see, that is the plan but plans always change! I finally get to go to the doctor tomorrow! I'm so excited! I just want to hear the babies heart beat or if I'm lucky I might get an ultrasound, either way I can't wait!

Wednesday, December 2, 2009

No no no no nooooo

Gabriel has been the funniest thing to watch lately. He walks around and points at all the things he's not supposed to touch and says 'no no no no no'.

My parents just got their Christmas tree up and the first time he saw the tree, he looked up at it for about a minute without moving and then looked at me and pointed to the tree saying 'no no no no no'. Then he was afraid of it for a few days:) Today though, my mom put the lights on the tree and the whole time Gabriel kept telling her 'no no no no' because he thought she wasn't supposed to touch the tree.

Now he's not afraid of it though, it's got too many pretty lights on it to be scary. So now, well, he walks over to the tree saying 'no no' all the way there, pauses for a second and then reaches out to touch it where of course Mama has to say something. Then once Mama has said her words his little hands whips back and looks and me and then says 'no no no' all the time he walks away. It is not the most commonly heard word around this house, all coming from Gabriel!

He also will randomly point to the oven/stove or a persons cup and say ' hotch' (hot) with his hand up and slowly back away:) Oh, and he finally learned how to give a bump but he does it with both hands instead of just one:) It's so cute to watch him learn!

Monday, November 30, 2009

Last of Korea...

These will be my last pictures of Korea. Then we can finally get to life here in Minnesota. Some of the pictures are rather random but I still wanted to show them to you.

So, first our wonderful friends in Korea threw us and Chris (the man sitting on the step in the black coat) a going away party. We had a ton of fun that night BBQing and talking. We also surprised our friends that night and told them that we were expecting baby number 2 but they needed to keep it quiet until we got back to the USA.


One day, when I was sick and totally not feeling well, Gabriel took full advantage of my lack of awareness and got ahold of my kleenex box and proceeded to empty every last one of the onto my kitchen floor... stinker:) I caught him in the very end of his sneaky act!


This is Gabriel, just being cheeky!


We had our last full day in Seoul shortly before we left. It ended up not being very fun like we had planned, but our favorite part of the day was the beginning when we went to COEX mall, got Gabriel a Christmas present and found a TGI Fridays to eat at.


This is my husband with his first large alcoholic drink in 7 months... hence the crazy eyes....


Continuing our last day in Seoul, our little munchkin fell asleep on Josh's back in the wrap. I was rather surprised that considering the funky angle his head was at the entire time he actually slept for about an hour.


From COEX mall we had gone to Itaewon which ended up being a huge waste of time. We had seemed to have forgotten that Itaewon is a super crummy place for tourist and went and ended up walking down both sides of the street and were completely bored and frustrated. We did need a break after walking around Itaewon so we stopped at Baskin Robbins and got a cup of ice cream to share. We gave Gabriel his own spoon which he thought was pretty awesome and then kept stealing mine as well, doubling fister:)


Then from Itaewon we went to go see this palace. Only to have a super hard time finding it and then to find that it closed at 5PM instead of 7PM like we had read online, so we never got to go inside, this was all we saw of really any palace in Korea. Kinda sad since there are so many...


So that is the end of our pictures from Korea. Now I can put up Minnesota stuff and not feel guilty that there are a ton of pictures in my iPhoto begging to be put on my blog from Korea.

Saturday, November 28, 2009

early morning

This is what happens to your child when you need to get up at 6AM to catch the train to get to Seoul on time for Josh's dentist appointment.



Then we get to the train station a little early and have to wait for the train...



...and then Gabriel gets hungry because we had to leave right after he got up and starts digging in the backpack for his breakfast...


...but then of course we have to wait to feed him until we get on the train so Josh had to hold him and try to distract him long enough for the train to come...

aren't they just cute?

We had to go into Seoul four times for Josh to get all of his wisdom teeth pulled. The never put him to sleep for it so he was never really drugged but he needed to bite down on gauze for about 3 hours afterwards so he couldn't talk. That is why Gabriel and I had to go so I could tell the taxi's where to go and get our train tickets and what not. One time Josh got a different dentist then normal and the dentist was horrible. The dentist couldn't get his tooth out and it wasn't very numb even though they shot his mouth 4 times is novocain and Josh was in so much pain when we left. I felt so bad for him because he couldn't even take his pills until we got home so he had to sit in intense pain for over 2 hours and then more before the pills could kick in a little bit.

Friday, November 27, 2009

Happy Thanksgiving!!!


Happy Thanksgiving!!!

Gabriel drew this great little picture with the help of Mommy and Daddy and had lots and lots of fun coloring with the markers. Josh said that when he was a kid he did a turkey with his hand print every year so we decided to do that is Gabriel as well. We even did one last year when he was just 3 months old!

I know I promised many posts this week and I kind of fell behind. Wednesday around the time when I was going to add another post with pictures I get a call from ANA, the airline we flew here on, where they proceed to tell me that even though it was theirs and the airports fault that we missed our flight and I had to spend hours arguing with them before they switched our flight, they will not be reimbursing me for any of my phone calls I made. The phone calls were the ones I made to them arguing with them about their mistake and sat on hold with them for over an hour and a half before they even picked up... yet their not going to reimburse me for them and it happens to be lots and lots of money. I was so mad and argued with woman on the phone for quite some time before my pregnancy hormones got the better of me and I turned into a blubbering mess while speaking to her. I'm sure she thought I was completely pathetic for crying on the phone but that is ok by me because I think she and their company are completely pathetic for not evening attempting to take care of the customers and forcing them/us pay hundreds of dollars for their mistake. Just saying... I'm kind of mad about that one. I'm thinking I'm gonna have to write a letter, it might not do much but at least I might feel better!

Anyway, so for the rest of the day on Wednesday I pretty much was seething with anger because of them and didn't really feel like blogging anymore. Thanksgiving day was fun though and we got to go to Josh's sisters and have Thanksgiving dinner with that side of the family. Gabriel had fun playing with his little cousin Rowan and thought he was helping him out by pulling off his socks and rubbing his hair:) It was a fun day.

So today, Black Friday, I came back to blog like I was supposed to a few days ago. I didn't do all the crazy shopping this morning, just a tiny bit online for maternity clothes, so I had a small amount of energy to write this blog. So, I just want to say... HAPPY THANKSGIVING and HAPPY BLACK FRIDAY shopping and I will see you tomorrow with another post with some pictures!

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Colorful Korea! ... and my all time favorite picture!

When we left Korea the colors were very beautiful! Fall had definitely come and Korea was awash of very beautiful vibrant colors.



Fall is my favorite time of year so I was very happy that it had made it's entrance in Korea before we had come back home especially considering that Minnesota's fall had already come and gone by the time we got here.


We took these pictures one morning on the way to the train station so that Josh could get another one of his wisdom teeth pulled. At the dentist we were going to they would never pull two teeth at a time so we had to go in four different times, all very early in the morning, to get his teeth pulled. I still have a couple more pictures to come about that. Anyway, that is when I captured this picture...


Gross as it may be it cracks me up every single time I look at it! I love Gabriel!

Bugs?

Would anybody like some nice old beetlish/cockroach Korean soup for lunch?

Oh yummmmmm.... (cough, sneeze, gag) it's so delicious....

Monday, November 23, 2009

Holiday Hats!

Yesterday during Gabriel nap time Josh and I snuck off into the woods and... well, actually we dug through some of our things in my parents house looking for some Christmas stuff. Some of which was and elf hat and a santa hat that Josh had boughten the very first Christmas we were married. When Gabriel did wake up from his nap time he found a few more Christmas decorations up and the hats. Oh how he loved the hats!




We had fun putting the hats on him and he had fun getting his picture taken!






Finally Updated!

I have to say that I am beyond annoyed at computers and blog background websites at the moment. Nothing is really their fault, mostly I'm annoyed because you can spend literally hours looking for a background that is cute and never ever find one. I told you in the past I was looking for a cute Christmas one, but I found out that one does not exist or if it does it does not want me to find it. So after spending a very long time looking for a Christmas one I decided to go non-Christmas and that still took forever. Can't someone just make cute, simple, color coordinated backgrounds? *Sigh, oh well. I ended on my simple green one that literally took me all morning to find!

So, I know I told you a week ago that I was going to update my blog and if you checked back to see the new updates I'm sure you found that I haven't touched a thing until today. Sorry for my lack of productivity. I have quite a few things I have to show you. Mostly just some pictures so within the next few days (and this time I'm serious!) I should have a few more posts up with pictures of Gabriel, some last pictures from Korea, and life here in Minnesota. I will be following this particular post with another post full of some pictures I took of Gabriel last night! We had some fun with some Christmas hats :D

Alright. Now that I have changed my background far more often then should probably be allowed, I promise to stick with this one for awhile! Come back soon for pictures of Gabriel in his Christmas hats!

Thursday, November 12, 2009

all the little moments...

UPDATE: Does anyone know how to change the name for the other people that are following it so it says 'all the little moments' not 'life abroad' on their blogs or dashboard? I'm almost thinking it's on their end because I just changed the name of one of the blogs I was following for my blog list...but I don't know... any hinters?

ORIGINAL POST:
I finally changed the name of my blog! It took a long time, as in hours, trying to decide what re-name my blog and I finally came up with 'all the little moments'. I was actually set on a different one but nobody seemed to like it, it was 'the ever growing family', I still like it personally but I'm going to try this one for awhile. Don't get me wrong, I do like the new one, I was just the old one for quite a few weeks.

Because I spent the last like three hours asking multiple peoples opinions and trying to decide what to name this blog I'm probably not going to change anything else tonight. Maybe tomorrow I will put up a new picture of Gabe (since it's been awhile) and put up the title on top and heck, maybe I'll search again for a cute Christmas-like background even though last time I failed miserably after hours of searching. We will see. As for now I just have a new name! If you think of something that is fun or cute for a name for my blog I'm still open for suggestions!

P.S. here are some of the other suggestions from people if you are interested. Some of cute and some are funny!

1. Life a Board
2. Life as a Broad (LOL)
3. Precious Lights of Life
4. Baby Bears
5. One More Makes Four
6. Life With Babes
and some more that I can't remember

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

dreams

Last night I had a dreadful nights sleep. If you are a parent, I'm sure that you know that if you dream of your children it's seems so very real. Well last night I kept dreaming that Gabriel was in bed with us and that he was going to fall off or we were going to wake him, squish him, and wondering why in the world he was in our bed in the first place. I hate having these dreams, I never get any sleep because I wake up every 2 minutes worrying about him. Last night it was extra awful though because usually I snap out of it, but last night it just kept going and going which resulted in absolutely no sleep.


I even asked Josh probably about 10 times if Gabriel was in bed with us or if he was ok or if he had Gabriel on his side. Well the crummy thing is that when my husband is half asleep all if his answers are simply 'yes', which did not help my dilemma because he was confirming that Gabriel was in bed when he never actually was. Ugh. So when I got up at 1:30AM to go to the bathroom and looked in Gabriel's crib and saw him fast asleep I literally thought 'well how in the world did you get there!' AND the dreams still never stopped! Wow, I'm special. I think that every woman that is a mom probably has had similar dreams but man oh man, they sure leave you sleepless and tired in the morning!

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Surprise!

Remember that post about a month ago when I told everybody we were coming home and at the very beginning of the post I said 'Guess what? And no I'm not pregnant...'? Well guess what? I was! I was just being sneaky!


That's right, I am pregnant with baby #2! I'm about 8 weeks along at the moment, a little over actually. I did a few different due date calculators and the one that is in the middle is June 18th so that's the one I'm going with.

We found out a little over a month ago when I was 3-4 weeks but we wanted to tell our family in person so we waited to share the news until we got back.

As for how I'm feeling, surprising well. With Gabriel I was sick all the time and this time I'm hardly sick at all. I've had my moments of course and when I'm hungry or wait to long to eat I can get more nauseous but nothing awful. I'm super thankful for feeling the way I do with this one. I'm surprised that the round ligament pain has already started a little bit, but nothing too bad. It usually comes around night time when I stretch the wrong way or too quickly.

We are all super excited for the new addition to our family!

Monday, November 9, 2009

Being Back

So far we have been back in the USA for a little over a week. It seems like we have been back longer because of everything that has already happened and things we have done.


We have all had jet lag over the past week, it's really hard changing time by 15 hours when you have a 14 month old. Gabriel is doing rather well though, last night he slept mostly through the night. He woke up fussing a couple of times but I think it might have been because he was a little cold and I tried putting his blanket on top but he never keeps it on. I'm just thankful that as of now we are at least sleeping at the right time of day.

Gabriel is doing fabulously well with re-meeting family. I thought he would have many emotional breakdowns but I can't even recall one at the moment. It's like he slightly remembered them in his own little way and didn't go into crying fits when they held him like he did when Koreans would randomly hold him.

We are all completely enjoying seeing friends and family. We are staying at my parents house until we find our own apartment and we are very thankful to them. We saw Josh's family the day after we got back for Josh's mom's birthday celebration. I am currently in Brainerd where I am staying at my sisters and I have already visited my grandparents and my brother and sister-in-law and all of their adorable boys! Josh actually stayed at my grandparents this past weekend and went deer hunting with my dad, brother, and brother-in-law. He had shot one deer so far, it was apparently a good size fawn but I haven't seen it. He went back out hunting this morning to see if he could fill up his other tag (in non-deer hunting language that means shooting another deer). We had originally planned on leaving here last night but since he didn't get two over the weekend he is trying one more time this morning.

The other thing that we have been dealing with lately is culture shock. America is so different when it comes to so many things. Even Gabriel is experiencing a little bit, he has never seen so many white people before, and for that matter, old white people, hairy white people, and other baby white people. For the first couple of days he just kind of looked at people and stared. It was cute. I on the other hand forgot how funny some people look in America. Hehe! I know, I'm really mean, but America has some very funny looking people, though I kind of realized that the majority of funny looking people have loads and loads of facial hair... just sayin' is all, it's what I've noticed. On the other hand I'm sure some of them think I look funny too so it's all good. Maybe I'm just used to seeing Koreans and one, they can't grow facial hair, and two, their looks don't vary that much.

Other then the people themselves it's just weird to drive in a 'flat' land (Korea was ALL mountains), see different trees and see GRASS! Lots and lots of glorious grass! The fashion is also very different here and the attitude of the people if amazing different. It's interesting to say the least as we try to re-get used to everything in America.

There are also a lot of luxuries that we have now that we didn't have back in Korea. Like a toaster, a clothes dryer, a bathroom faucet that we can turn on when we want to, more then two dinner plates, hot water for more then one hour out of the day, a car, nice diapers, good food, I don't have to scoop my clean drinking water out of the filter anymore every time I wanted a drink, a soft bed, blankets that are big enough for two people, soft couches and carpet...the list can go on and on. It's like our own little heaven!

Monday, November 2, 2009

The Longest Day of My Life!

It's 4AM here in Minnesota and Josh and I are up waiting for Gabriel to fall back asleep. Unfortunately we have been waiting for awhile and it's just not happening... but we're still hoping. This is the second time we've put him down since he got up at 1:30AM, the first time was very unsuccessful, the second time, well we will just have to see.


We made it back to Minnesota though! It was a long and awful couple of days of traveling. Josh and I got up at 7AM on Friday morning and got everything ready to head to the airport. We ended up leaving English Village at 9:30AM and took the two hour car ride to the airport. When we got to the airport we had a little problem. When we ordered Gabriel's ticket they decided to send us a paper one and they only ship to addresses in the U.S. so they had to ship it to my parents home and then my parents had to ship it to us, but we never received it. So, when we got to the airport we showed them the receipt that we had paid and his itinerary but they wouldn't accept it and made us pay for him again. The problem was, besides having to pay an extra $150 that we already paid, was that they couldn't get his ticket to print, so we waited around the airport with our many bags for 2 hours before they gave us a makeshift ticket and we could then check all of our bags. From there things seemed to go pretty well in Incheon, we made it through immigration and security without a problem and made it to our gate with an hour to spare.

We then hopped on our plane and headed to Tokyo. Now, I had been worried about the layover in Tokyo ever since we bought our tickets. It was only a 45 minute layover and we had to switch planes of course. Now 45 minutes is cutting it close but it is plenty of time to normally catch a flight... your just not going to be sipping coffee or go to the bathroom in between flights. Well in the air we find out that there are traffic delays at the airport in Tokyo and our plane was going to land 20 minutes late... oh crap. Ok, well, it's still possible, it give us 25 minutes to find our gate and get on the plane. Unfortunately because of the traffic delays they did not have a gate for us to get off on so they landed us in the middle of the airstrip and we had to take a 10 minute shuttle ride to the terminal... CRAP!!! I was so worried and was literally trying to push people aside so we could be the first people off the bus, 15 minutes left, not fun at all.

When we finally got to the terminal there was a lady waiting for us to take us to our gate. She kept yelling 'you need to run, you need to run NOW!'. Because we were outside of the terminal for a whole 10 minutes they made us go through security again, I was rather irritated to be honest! Now, the interesting thing was, when I put my bag in the scanner, it was closed, I made sure, when I was running down the terminal to get to the gate it somehow opened and all the contents of my bag started to fall out behind me. Luckily there was some very nice people who followed me picking up my stuff and we never actually lost anything.

We finally made it to our gate with 5 minutes to spare. 'Thank you God' was all that was going through my head. The door to the plane was still open and all we had to do was hop on and fly away... but they wouldn't let us. They said that we couldn't board because our bags from the previous flight hadn't been transferred fast enough and they said we couldn't fly without our bags. My thoughts? BS people! They lose bags all the time so it's not like people always fly with their bags! But we argued and told them we didn't care if our bags arrived a day late, we just wanted on the plane, but no, we weren't allowed and we missed our flight because they were being dumb.

From there everything continued to go down hill. We sat at the airport for 3 hours trying to get them to put us (and another guy who missed his flight with us, he was threatening to sue the airline) on another flight but they kept saying that they couldn't. They said that there was no other flights... BS again people! There are flights flying out from Toyko all the time AND they even found one that they were supposedly going to get us on but then all the sudden their supervisor said we couldn't and we were all going to have to wait until the next day and take the same flight at the same time. Oh I was so mad. There were flights leaving all the time the next day and they weren't willing to put us on any of them.

I was sick of sitting in the airport getting nowhere with the people so I took up their offer to put us in a hotel for the night. It then took them 45 minutes to get us a hotel voucher and in the mean time I made it clear we needed a crib and I wanted to be reimbursed for food. Well, they said that it wasn't up to them to provide those things so if we wanted a crib at the hotel we were going to have to pay for it and any food purchases (or phone calls) were going to be on us. I was livid.

We made it to the hotel to find out it was this crappy little thing with two twin beds in it and I ended up paying for the crib so we could get some sleep. I won't even tell you about the food, so nasty! Actually, I will tell you a little, imagine the nastiest, greasiest pizza possible and then place 4 thick, uncooked slabs of bacon on top of it... throwing up yet? I almost did.

I then spent the next two hours on the phone (1.5 hours of that being on hold, not joking) trying to get ANA to put us on a different flight the next day. Josh even found a flight through them that still had seats available that left at 10:45 the next morning. I kept telling them that this was the flight we wanted and they kept saying that it was impossible. I had to ask them why and they said 'oh, well you need to take the flight that you were scheduled for and that is the 5:30 flight' ... well people, if I needed to take the flight I was scheduled for then YOU SHOULD HAVE LET ME ON THE PLANE WHEN IT WAS THERE! They couldn't seem to get that through their heads and they told me they would see what they could do and call me back in the morning. They never called me back. So, I called them back and literally spent 2 hours on the phone arguing with them and they just going in circles. I even asked for a supervisor 3-4 times and they wouldn't put me through. They said that they called the airport many times and couldn't get us on the flight because of policies and crap.

Then began the longest day of our lives. Literally. I hung up the phone on the girl after she wouldn't put me through to the supervisor for the billionth time I asked (yes, I turned into one of those people, but I feel like I was totally justified) and we hopped on the bus to the airport. This was all without breakfast because the hotel didn't offer any breakfast so we weren't very happy because we were sleep deprived and now very hungry.

We get to the airport and I go to the ANA counter and it turns out that everybody knew about me =D (hehehe) They tried telling me 'oh, well you know the situation, we can't get you on a different flight'. So, I told them in pretty much these exact words 'We missed our flight, it was NOT OUR FAULT and you haven't done anything for us except put us in a crummy hotel and make us pay hundreds of dollars in phone bills arguing with YOUR company about YOUR mistake. You have 2 hours until this 10:45AM plane leaves... get me on it, MAKE IT HAPPEN'. They argued a little bit more and I said it all again and then they finally did it! We found out then why they didn't want to switch us, it was because they had to bump us up to business class when we had paid for economy. I think the words that went through my head weren't exactly pleasant... it's a good thing they didn't come out my mouth:) It might have been along the lines of 'Up yo...' maybe I shouldn't say that:)

So we made it on our flight, finally! The flight went pretty well, Gabriel didn't cry too much and he took 2 naps. We flew to Chicago where we had a little bit of trouble getting to our next flight because in Toyko they didn't give us boarding passes to our second flight so we had to go check in again and then the line for security was forever long. We ended up being the last people to board our flight there as well but we made it! We were even early arriving in Minneapolis!

It was the longest day of our lives, literally. We got up at 6AM in Toyko on Saturday morning, our plane left at 10:45AM and we landed in Minnesota at 11AM on Saturday Minnesota time. The day got even longer when we found out that time change happened that night so instead of a normal 24 hour day, ours was 39 hours. I think needless to say, I'm so glad that Saturday is over with!

I'll write more later about how things have been since we gotten back. Pretty far it's been ok, except it's now going on 5AM and I'm still up:) Actually baby boy is sleeping now, he fell asleep about 30 minutes ago... except I just heard him cry a little, anyway, I wanted to finish this blog. So, I am now going to bed for the second time tonight, or morning... whatever, something like that, I'm sleep deprived!

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

last day

Today is our last full day in Korea! I have so much stuff to do! I'm kind of asking myself 'Kayla, why are you blogging when you have 10 billion things to get done?' but I haven't found a good enough answer yet except that I don't want to do 10 billion things and have a toddler chase me around the house unpacking what I pack and unfolding everything I fold and tearing apart everything I organize... 


Nobody ever tells you how hard it can be to pack with a toddler chasing you around. It's actually really difficult. You place one thing in one pile and soon it's not there anymore and you have to search for it and put it back and so on. See it also doesn't help that I have to pack up almost all of his toys so he has nothing to play with except non-toy things and all the non-toy things happen to be everything that needs to be packed. He can also climb to any place where I have boxes full of things and that are organized and get his chubby little hands on them and demolish all of Mama's hard work. Also, every time you place something in a suitcase you cannot just leave it open, oh no. You must close the suitcase and zipper it up every single time you place an item in it because if you leave it open ALL of you stuff will be "neatly" unpacked all over your floor because a little monkey got into your suitcase. LOL! It's been a challenging morning and/or last couple of days but it's still fun. 

Gabriel is not doing so well today though. Even though he is having loads of fun unpacking everything Mama packs, he is very sick. He was sick all day yesterday with a stomach issue and the worst diaper rash I have ever seen. My poor baby. He cried all day yesterday and every time he needed a diaper change (which was all the time) he would scream and scream because we needed to clean the rash:( I even cried with the poor little guy a few times because I felt so bad for him. You could just tell every time he pooped or peed or sat the wrong way he was in so much pain. Then last night we didn't get very much sleep because if he went to the bathroom in the middle of the night it resulted in screaming and having to have a diaper change which led to more screaming. Today he is feeling a lot better, not so much of the stomach issue anymore, just a little bit, but he still has a monster of a diaper rash. The hard thing is that I ran out of diaper rash cream and have had to result to making my own which usually isn't a problem but I've ran out of all the ingredients to make my usual one. So I experimented today and made a new one that has been working pretty well. I just hope that it goes away by tomorrow so we don't have to deal with it on the plane, Gabriel would have a hard time being in a plane without much sleep and a killer diaper rash.

I still need to finish packing, go weigh all the luggage, print out our e-tickets, go to the post office to mail a package, go to the pharmacy, figure out who is driving us to the airport tomorrow so we can talk to them about what time to meet us and change 500 more diapers! and make dinner... and make sure this whole family has baths tonight... and move our fridge to another apartment... and..... oh dear, I need to get moving... I'M COMING HOME TOMORROW!!!

Saturday, October 24, 2009

meat...

Did you know that meat isn't always that great for you? I learned something while in Korea, and it's all about meat!


Did you know that in many countries, like the US, the companies that raise lots of cows, chickens, pigs, really any kind of animal, put growth hormones into the animals feed to help them grow faster so they can produce more meat and therefore make more money? Did you know that when we eat that meat we are eating the same hormones? Gross huh. 

Did you know that those hormones they feed the animals are extremely bad for you and that cancer can thrive off of those hormones? Did you know that they can make you gain a lot of weight? Think about it. Hormones make things grow. Like when a woman takes extra estrogen she can gain a lot more weight, it's the same thing. 

I have a friend here whose family has a lot of cancer and whenever they find it out the doctors immediately tell them they need to stop eating meat because of all the hormones. These doctors are from New Zealand by the way, so it's not like some third world, witch doctor kind of thing. Just giving you an example. 

Kind of makes you want to stop eating meat doesn't it? It does for me at least! More reason to buy organic!

Oh, by the way, there is also A TON of added hormones in milk too, in case you were wondering. Ewww!!!! 

Thursday, October 22, 2009

CHRISTMAS!!!

It's time for CHRISTMAS!!! At least in my book it is!!! I love Christmas, it's the best holiday of the year! Christmas time also means time for a Christmasy background for my blog to light that holiday fire in our souls and get us rockin' around the Christmas tree... or something like that. Ahem. Anyway. So, I looked high and I looked low and all around for a cute Christmas background with little snowmen and cute snowflakes that sparkled just right and made your nose tickle with excitement for the upcoming cookies and hot cocoa... or something like that, but there was no such background to be found. So I found this one, which does have snow flakes on it, if you look really close, but no cute snowmen or jingle bells or angles or stars... I might have to keep looking for the prefect one. But in the mean time I hope that this one gets your nose tickling and toes tapping and hearts bubbling with the thought of beautiful snow, glorious Christmas music, yummy cookies, green, lushes Christmas trees and big fat turkeys dripping with gravy (or something like that *wink)!


Have a holly, jolly Christmas,  
It's the best time of the year,  
I don't know, if there'll be snow,  
But have a cup of cheer. 

Have a holly, jolly Christmas,  
And when you walk down the street,  
Say hello to friends you know,  
And everyone you meet.

Oh, ho the mistletoe,  
Hung where you can see,  
Somebody waits for you,  
Kiss her once for me. 

Have a holly, jolly Christmas,  
And in case you didn't hear,  
Oh by golly  
Have a holly, jolly, 
Christmas this year

one week...

I can't believe that we have one week left in Korea. Just one week. It's rather weird for me to think about it. When I think 'oh, we're leaving on the 30th' it seems like I have all the time in the world to get things done. But when I think 'we're leaving in a week... YIKES!' then I don't feel like I have any time at all. 


Lately my mind set has been like the first one I described, I feel like I have all the time in the world. I haven't decided if this is a good thing or a bad thing yet. Maybe it's neither. I know of all the things that need to get done, and that I want to do, in the next week but so far it's not stressing me out. Possibly it could be the fact that I already have two suitcases packed and have shipped a few boxes back to my parents long before we even decided we were coming home. Maybe. Maybe that could be it. Or, maybe it could be that God is giving us this huge peace about coming home and that's why I'm not stressing out about it. Either way, it doesn't seem completely real that we're coming home soon.

One thing I do get a little stressed if I let my mind just wander is our plane ride home. I am not looking forward to it. Plain and simple I am dreading it. Gabriel is not the easiest sleeper and we're going to be traveling, sitting in airports, taking car rides and lugging our luggage half way across the world for about 24 hours and if Gabriel decides not to sleep on the plane... well, we'll all just be soooo, ummm, 'happy,' when we get to the airport in Minnesota. I try not to think about it too much, mostly I'm trying to think of creative ways to keep Gabriel busy on the plane and hoping and praying that we get good seats in all three planes, or, at least the long one. But that's really the only thing that has stressed me out much. 

One week... One week until we can see our friends and family back in the US. One week until we arrive in the bitterly cold weather of Minnesota. One week until we have good food! One week until my husband and I can actually sleep in a soft bed and share a blanket that is actually big enough for both of us. One week until Gabriel gets to see the families that he has probably forgotten in his small memory and they get to see him all chub and walking... a big boy now! One until we can actually drive again and go shopping all by our little selves. One week... it just doesn't seem real yet! 

Monday, October 19, 2009

need some advice

Now that we are moving back to the US in 10 DAYS (woot woot) a lot of things are going to change. I'm excited about most of the changes and am looking forward to them. With one change though I need some opinions please!


The name of my blog is called Life Abroad. The problem with the name of my blog is that I am no longer going to be living abroad so the name doesn't really work anymore. So I need a new name for my blog, one that I can have for a long time and probably never have to change again. It can be anything really, something cute, something fun, something creative, quirky, anything really. 

So ladies and gentlemen, what do you think?

Thursday, October 15, 2009

big huge bummer

So our sale did not go anything like we had hoped. We have been to a couple of people's sales here that they have when they leave and tons of people always show up. We only had 4 customers:( 


The good thing was that we sold a lot of big stuff, like our fridge, couch and our pack-n-play. 

We are going to have one more sale before we leave and we hope and pray that a lot of people will come to it and we can get rid of all of our stuff. I think we're going to have to 'market' our sale a little bit better this next time and put up signs or something. 

So yes, our sale was a big. huge. bummer. Oh well! I'm glad that we got rid of the big stuff at least! That was the stuff I was most worried about. 

Darn it

Gosh darn it all! The cleaning part of my brain won:( The napping part gave a very valiant effort! Napping almost won over by baiting me into bed for 20 minutes, but the cleaning part wouldn't shut up about everything I needed to do:( Boo on you cleaning part of my brain! 

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

apartment sale

Tonight Josh and I are having a sale in our apartment to sell all of the things that we have accumulated over the past 6-7 months and some things we brought with us but don't need anymore. We're going to have to have 2 sales. One will be tonight like I mentioned and then we will have another one a couple of days before we leave and then we will sell food and things that we don't want to bring back with us but we will need the next two weeks. 


I'm kind of excited to get rid of a lot of our stuff. It's one of the first steps in heading home! I'm a little apprehensive about tonight though because we need to set up all of the stuff for people to see... but that also means that it will all be within Gabriel's reach and that usually means disaster. So while I have to keep up with people asking me questions and shopping I also have to keep up with Gabriel not tearing everything apart. Oh dear! I'm thinking of putting him in his high chair with some finger food, maybe that will occupy him for awhile.

The problem with having a sale tonight... well, I'm tired. LOL! I just can't get myself moving today. Today is cold, one of those days that I want to lay on the couch and watch a movie with a blanket and have a nice cup of hot chocolate to keep my company. Maybe even take a nap and eat popcorn too! I'm also losing my voice because it's so dry in our apartment with the heaters on that I never feel like I can quench my thirst which resulted in an extremely sore throat and the loss of my voice. So lay around is what I would most like to do today. But no, I must clean, clean and organize and clean and organize and set up and clean and organize and make dinner at some point and clean some more. Too bad I haven't done any of that yet:) Hmmm... the nap part of my brain might win the argument it's having with the clean part of my brain... at least, that is who I want to win:)

Monday, October 12, 2009

News!!!

Well, we have some news! And no, I'm not pregnant:) lol! You thought you guessed it didn't you? But nope, that wasn't it! What is our news... Gabriel got a new car seat!!!! Oh, that's not exciting? Darn. 


Well, maybe it'll be exciting if I actually told you that he needs a new car seat because they are required back in America and we don't have one big enough for him. What's that? I didn't tell you we were coming back to America?!?! Oops. My bad. I guess I will tell you now then.

So, yes, that's right, we are coming home!!! YES!!!! When may this happen I hear you asking, well the 30th of October is when! We just bought our plane tickets today! We land around 6PM and change planes twice and have like a 17 hour trip not including the car rides and bus rides and ... you don't want all the details? Sorry again:)

Why are we coming home? Well, if you have been following my blog for awhile you probably already know that things at the school Josh works at are not exactly pleasant. Rather miserable actually. They were threatening not to pay us, telling us this place might close, lying to us about numerous things, telling us to go find jobs elsewhere ect. It has been rather crazy. That is not the whole reason we are leaving though. Josh and I could live here for another 6 (5 by the time we leave) months and deal with it, but we really don't feel like we are supposed to. We feel like God keeps telling us to go home.

Gods directions don't always make sense to be completely honest. Like when he told us to come here, that didn't make sense. When he told us to give almost half of our money away one time, that didn't make sense. When he told us to go to Japan, that didn't make sense. Now, God is telling us to go back home and though it doesn't make complete sense, we are following his direction because he has always blessed us and taken care of us before when we follow him.

Josh doesn't have a job back in Minnesota yet, but there is a job that sounds very promising. It's a job down by the Iowa border (but still in MN) and it's working in a plant. Josh had a phone interview with them and they loved him! They want him to come in for a one on one interview shortly after we get back and take a tour of the plant. We are very excited and we are praying that if this is the job that God has lined up for Josh that all the doors will be opened and he will get it without any problem. 

For the first couple of weeks or until Josh gets a job and we can get an apartment, we will be living at my parents home up by Duluth. We are very thankful to my parents for letting us into their home while we sort things out. 

I know that we will be very tired the first few days, or weeks! lol! But we would love to see everybody when we get back! Things with Gabriel and jet lag may make things a little difficult, so I'm sure there will be times when only Josh will go meet people and I will stay home with Gabriel or we might ask people to come to us instead of going to them and so on and so forth. But either way, we are still looking forward to seeing absolutely everybody and we are so excited about this new direction that God is giving us!

This is also why I haven't been blogging that much lately, because it's hard not to blog about the big things that are happening in your life! We have known we were going to do this for a little over a week now. We felt like God has been wanting us to do this for about a month or more now so one day I sat down and crunched all the numbers and gave the list to Josh so he had all the facts and told him that I completely trusted whatever decision he made. I told him how I felt about everything and he decided to go in the direction we have felt God wanted us to go and there you go. We just didn't want to tell everybody (well, almost everybody) until it was final and we had the plane tickets. 

So yes, we are very very excited! Even Gabriel is excited even though he can't say it:) If you would like to pray for us that would totally awesome. There are a few things you could pray for...
*The school has been rather miserable to us ever since we told them that we are leaving. They took away Josh's remaining vacation and won't let him have it, lying to us about more things, and kind of being a royal pain in the ... anyway! So Josh has a hard time going to work most mornings because of it, he just can't stand all the lies. 
*Also, we are trying to get Josh into the dentist before we leave so that he can get his wisdom teeth pulled. It would only cost us about $50 to get them pulled here and in the States it would cost much, much MUCH more, as in thousands of $$$$. He needs to get it done very badly so we're praying that something opens up where he can get in before we leave. 
*Also, because the school took his vacation away we're not sure how we're going to get the days off in order to go to the dentist... maybe call in sick if it comes to that but Josh doesn't like to do that. 
*If you could pray that Josh would be able to either get the job that he has an interview for or another job lines up that would be great. 
*And lastly, pray that everything would just go smoothly from now until we leave this place and everything will just fall into place. 


Sunday, October 11, 2009

Wild Horses

Ooooh

I feel these four walls closing in
Face up against the glass
I'm looking out, hmmm
Is this my life I'm wondering
It happened so fast
How do I turn this thing around
Is this the bed I chose to make
It's greener pastures I'm thinking about
Hmm, wide open spaces far away

All I want is the wind in my hair
To face the fear but not feel scared

Ooh, wild horses I wanna be like you
Throwing caution to the wind, I'll run free too
Wish I could recklessly love like I'm longing to
I wanna run with the wild horses
Run with the wild horses, oh

Yeah, oh oh, ye-yeah

I see the girl I wanna be
Riding bare-back, care-free
Along the shore
If only that someone was me
Jumping head-first, head-long
Without a thought
To act and damn the consequence
How I wish it could be that easy
But fear surrounds me like a fence
I wanna break free

All I want is the wind in my hair
To face the fear, but not feel scared

Oooh, wild horses I wanna be like you
Throwing caution to the wind, I'll run free too
Wish I could recklessly love like I'm longing to
I wanna run with the wild horses
Run with the wild horses, oh

I wanna run too
Oooh oh oh oh
Recklessly emboundening myself before you
I wanna open up my heart
Tell him how I feel, ooh ooh

Oooh, wild horses I wanna be like you
Throwing caution to the wind, I'll run free too
Wish I could recklessly love like I'm longing to
I wanna run with the wild horses
Run with the wild horses
Run with the wild horses

Ooh ooooh ooh ooh ye-yeah yeah oohh
I wanna run with the wild horses, ooooh


-by Natasha Bedingfield

Friday, October 9, 2009

workin' hard

We put Gabriel to work early ;) Got to get him working on those chores you know =D

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

little monkey

My babe is such a determined little monkey some days. See, we always put Gabriel's toys in a box and the other day I cleaned the apartment so I put the box in a little cubby hole in the side table. Well Gabriel loves to sit in the box with all his toys surrounding him so what does he do? He pulls the box out just enough to somehow manage to climb in it without falling over and sits there trying not to fall out because the box is slanted downward. He couldn't even reach half his toys in the box because half of it was still in the hole. I had to laugh when I saw him trying to keep his balance while holding his toys:) Sorry the pictures aren't that great, he wouldn't stop moving:)

Yummmmm!!!!

We had chocolate chips for the first time in 6 months the other day. I was able to track down all of the ingredients thanks to some friends and my mom and I made lots and lots of cookies! This was Gabriel's first taste of the goodness and he loved it! Now, I may or may not have given him this cookie about an hour before bed time because he was very crabby and I wanted to keep him quiet to preserve my sanity... you know, maybe, I might have... but you will never know!